On a clear night, invite a good friend or family member outside on your deck or in your back yard on your favorite chase lounge chair’s, lay back flat and look up at the stars… the shooting stars…. and the heavens and just breath slow and deep and think for a while and silently ask the question to the stars,WHY, pause for a while and reflect for a few minutes and when your ready, stand up and give your friend or loved one a big long hug and maybe a kiss on the cheek and just reflect, it will humble you and maybe make you feel better about your life and your pain. 🙂